There is a difference between growing and rushing. Rushing is chasing the next version of yourself before you have fully inhabited this one. Growing is something else entirely; the quiet accumulation of intentional choices.
Spring does not rush. The bloom does not force itself open ahead of schedule. It simply responds to the conditions that support it: warmth, water, time, and the right environment.
You are the same. You do not need to rush your becoming. You need to trust the conditions you have created for yourself and give them the time they deserve. The rooted woman is not waiting to arrive. She is already here. Growing steadily. Blooming on her own timeline.